Staff disputes can throw off an event faster than any technical glitch or scheduling delay. From miscommunication due to unclear roles and clashing personalities to shift and break issues, staff disputes can shake even the strongest teams, pulling down your logistics, your team’s performance, and the guest experience along with it. As an event manager, knowing how to handle these conflicts effectively isn’t just a bonus skill; it’s a core part of the job.
By the end of this guide, you’ll understand why staff disputes happen and how to address them effectively under pressure.
A staff dispute is any form of conflict, tension, or disagreement that arises between team members while working. In events, staff disputes can range from subtle misunderstandings to more serious breakdowns in communication or cooperation.
While staff disputes can appear suddenly, they usually don’t come out of nowhere. Most staff disputes happen because of differing opinions and when something in the workflow, communication, or leadership breaks down. Here are some specific examples of why staff disputes happen.
• Poor communication or unclear instructions
• Overlapping roles and responsibilities
• Unequal workload or perceived favoritism
• Personality clashes and past unresolved tensions
• High-pressure environments with little room for breaks
• Lack of training or mismatched expectations
Handling workplace conflict isn’t easy. In fact, 49% of emerging leaders say they struggle with it. And if you’re managing a live event while handling disputes, the pressure is even higher. But staff disputes aren’t something you can ignore. They need to be handled quickly and appropriately before they affect the flow of your entire event.
Keep reading as we walk you through practical, clear steps you can take to manage staff disputes effectively.
As we’ve mentioned above, staff disputes can surface fast, but they never come out of nowhere. There’s always a cause, and recognizing the early warning signs gives you the chance to step in before the issue spills onto the floor and affects your event team. Some of the early warning signs to look for are sudden changes in tone, teammates avoiding each other, passive-aggressive comments, or a noticeable drop in collaboration.
Staying present and tuned in during the event is key to catching early signs of tension. Make room for quick check-ins, pay attention to changes in tone or energy, and don’t brush off subtle cues like eye-rolling, silence, or passive remarks. If something feels off, take a minute to pull that person aside in a calm, low-pressure setting and ask if everything’s okay. You don’t need to have a deep conversation or take disciplinary measures, just show that you are paying attention and ready to help. Most of the time, that is enough to address early signs of disputes and keep things from building up.
Intervening without escalating is all about addressing conflict calmly and efficiently before it spreads. It works by reducing emotional heat and guiding both sides toward a neutral ground. It also protects the overall team’s focus during high-pressure moments and helps keep operations smooth without creating more tension or turning small issues into bigger scenes.
Intervening without making things worse isn’t easy, especially when emotions are high, tension’s rising, and the clock is ticking. But as the manager, you need to stay calm, steady, and neutral. Start by giving everyone space. Separate the people involved so they can breathe. Then let each side speak while you listen fully and without interrupting. Keep your tone grounded and shift the focus forward. Try phrases like “Let’s find a better way to move forward” or “What can we do to avoid this happening again today?” And if the energy still feels off, don’t hesitate to make quick adjustments to help reset the tone.
Constructive dialogue, what many call the hard talk, isn’t easy, and it’s common to assume that staff would rather avoid it. But research says otherwise. In fact, 62% of employees say they actually want to have difficult conversations at work. These conversations can cover everything from performance concerns and team dynamics to personal struggles or broader issues that affect how people show up.
Facilitating constructive dialogues during events can feel uncomfortable, but it’s necessary. Through this, you create a space where your event teams or members can talk things through and shift the focus of the dispute from blame to understanding. Instead of letting tension spread or linger quietly in the background, a real conversation helps get to the root of the issue and rebuild working relationships with respect and clarity.
To facilitate constructive dialogue to resolve disputes, find a quiet spot away from distractions where the people involved can speak freely. Set ground rules before you start, such as no interrupting, no personal attacks, and keep the focus on solving the problem. Let each person speak fully, then guide the conversation back to shared goals. Ask questions to dig deeper and repeat key points to show you’re listening. Always check in afterward to make sure both sides feel heard and clear on what’s next. That follow-through is just as important as the talk itself.
There’s a common belief that compromise is hard to reach at work, especially when tensions run high. But according to a report, 87.8% of professionals say they’re willing to compromise during a conflict if it helps break a deadlock and move toward a real solution.
The truth is, not every dispute will end in a perfect resolution, and that’s where compromise comes in. Compromising is about meeting in the middle when time is tight or when the issue doesn’t have a perfect answer. It prevents conflict from dragging out, especially when both parties are willing to give a little to keep things moving. It may not give everyone everything they want, but it ensures both sides feel acknowledged.
Help your staff meet in the middle by starting with clarity. Ask each person what they need and where they’re open to compromise. Talk it out, lay the options on the table, and guide them toward a middle ground that feels workable. Maybe that means splitting tasks, rotating decisions, or agreeing on a setup that holds for now and gets reviewed after the event.
Accommodating is different from compromise. It’s what you use when giving way fully is the smoother path, especially when compromise isn’t possible in the middle of an event. Sometimes, one person needs to set aside their preference to keep the peace and protect the flow of the team. It’s not meant to be a long-term solution, but when used intentionally, it can ease tension fast and let everyone stay focused. The key is to always use it with purpose, not by default, and be mindful of whose needs are being set aside and why.
Encourage staff to use accommodation when it makes sense, but be mindful if someone always backs down. As a manager, step in to ensure they’re not being overlooked or overruled repeatedly. If you choose to accommodate someone yourself, explain why you're doing so to model emotional intelligence and perspective-taking. Then, flag the issue for deeper discussion after the event, when things are calmer and more time is available for proper resolution.
Documenting and following up after the event ensures that the resolution of staff disputes doesn’t stop once the event ends. It creates accountability and provides a record that can inform training, management decisions, or future conflict resolution. It can also protect you as a manager by ensuring there’s a written, factual record of what happened.
Take time immediately after the event to write a summary of the dispute, including who was involved, what happened, what actions were taken, and what was agreed upon. Ask the involved team members to contribute their own accounts if needed. Set up follow-up check-ins to ensure the resolution is holding and expectations are clear. Use the documentation to spot recurring patterns and address any root issues through training or clearer protocols before your next event.
Avoidance often gets a bad rap when it comes to conflict resolution, but some professionals still choose it, and in fast-paced environments, it definitely can have its place. It means choosing not to engage in a conflict when the issue is minor, temporary, or not worth the energy. This method is effective during events when the disruption would cause more harm than the conflict itself, or when the individuals involved are unlikely to work together again. Take note that avoidance only works when the stakes are truly low.
To figure out if the dispute is something you can let pass, start by looking at how much it could actually affect the team or the event. If it’s just a tense moment or a personality mismatch that doesn’t affect performance, it might be best to let it slide. However, always circle back later to make sure there are no lingering issues.
StaffConnect keeps your team aligned, informed, and accountable, so conflicts don’t have room to grow. With real-time communication, smart scheduling, and automated reminders, your team stays informed and understands what needs to be done. No more last-minute confusion or role mix-ups. On top of that, you get access to powerful tools for onboarding, payroll, branding, data collection, and more, all in one platform that keeps every part of event and staff management running smoothly.
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